Vincent Lacapria, 81, of New Hyde Park, New York, passed away on October 30, 2026.
Born in Brooklyn, New York, Vincent spent his childhood in Hollis, Queens. He loved his parents dearly, and although he lost his mother at age twelve and his father at thirty, their influence remained with him throughout his life. He graduated from St. Francis College with a bachelor’s degree in History and subsequently served his country in the United States Army during the Vietnam War era.
In July 1973, Vincent married his beloved wife, Diane DePersia. Together, they shared 53 years of marriage. In 1975, they settled in New Hyde Park, New York, where they raised their two children, Michael and Kristen, and made their home for more than five decades.
A successful entrepreneur, Vincent owned and operated an employment recruiting business for more than 35 years. He took tremendous pride in the business he built and the opportunities he created for individuals seeking employment. His professional success was enhanced by the personal satisfaction he derived from helping others improve their lives.
Above all, Vincent was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, brother, and uncle. He was immensely proud of his children, Michael (Melissa) and Kristen (Peter), and cherished his four grandchildren, James, Matthew, Emma, and Lucy. He shared a deep and enduring bond with his sisters, Nancy (Benjamin), Annette (Lorenzo), and Lillian (Ronald), as well as his sister-in-law, Karen (George), and his twelve beloved nieces and nephews.
Vincent was a man of extraordinary generosity and selflessness. He possessed a seemingly endless capacity to help others, offering thoughtful advice, practical assistance, and unwavering support. Family members regularly sought his counsel, knowing they could depend on his wisdom, sound judgment, and genuine concern for their well-being. He found great fulfillment in the happiness and success of others, giving freely of himself without expecting anything in return.
Outside of his professional and family life, Vincent enjoyed gardening and was a devoted New York Mets fan. An avid student of history with a keen interest in politics and current events, he loved engaging in lively conversations and sharing his knowledge and opinions with family and friends.
Although Alzheimer’s disease challenged Vincent during the final years of his life, it could never diminish the love he inspired or the lasting influence he had on those around him.
Vincent’s legacy is one of love, generosity, integrity, and devotion to family. He will be remembered not simply for the success he achieved, but for the lives he enriched and the family he loved so dearly.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that memorial donations be made to the Cure Alzheimer’s Fund in Vincent’s memory.